"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Here is a video of an Alpha Male in action

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Stupid dorks! Of couse he's conscience. He's trying to exhagarate the body language that alphas portray naturally. When it's natural, you don't look like a dork. Funny thing is, people critisize him but they don't learn anything from him.
You got a lot learn yourself! Behave.
Trying to demonstrate "alpha body language" - confident bodylanguage and "don´t give a damn" attitude, with seemingly no confidence and concentrating only in looking like something you´re obviously not... is the same as trying to demonstrate lovemaking techniques without a partner. That´s masturbation.

The video was good, we got good laughs. We all learned how we should not do the things.



Was he worried about what everyone else thought?
To me it seems he really was.

What this guy is doing defiently flys in Croatia...Europian girls are not used to *******s and thugs like here in US. So it does work as you seem to be different and all manly man.
Is this your idea of a manly man? :confused:

But the reason we are noticing stuff is because some of us can intuit and sense he's really not what he's trying to be. It is human nature to see when one is stepping out of the pecking order where we know they should be. Some of us get an aggressive feeling inside to place this person where he deserves to be.
Exactly.

(edit: english is berý fooking difficult :D )
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well I wouldn't feel comfortable paying to get a workshop or anything with someone like this. But these are just my opinions.


He looked like he crapped himself from eating too many meatballs and twinkies.


Wham! But I have to give him credit for having the balls to have that 'I'm a mummy with a tummy and am undergoing a mid-life crisis' look. (The J-Lo glasses and sleeveless shirt that doesn't fit him accentuate it)
 

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i kind of already do this because its just more comfortable then sitting up straight, so i guess i get two things out of it now :)
 

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Here's the thing. He's trying to demonstrate alpha male behaviour, but do you really see this kid commanding any respect in a crowd? Also, I really can't imagine a hot woman at his side.

Perhaps the moves are right. I think if it was someone like Vin Diesel in the video, doing the same thing, there'd be no debate.
 

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Perception man, perception.

If you didn't already know, Vin Diesel is a HUGE nerd at heart. Has been since he was a kid. Know what D&D is? He played that shiet forever, it was his passion. A nerd through and through. Except at one point where he tried his hand at Poppin (Type of street dance) but he sucked at that shiet and his dorkiness shined through.

That being the case, something you completely missed because of your notion of who Vin Diesel is, perhaps you should rethink your idea about Cortez (guy in the alpha body language video).
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Soma
If you didn't already know, Vin Diesel is a HUGE nerd at heart. Has been since he was a kid. Know what D&D is? He played that shiet forever, it was his passion. A nerd through and through.
Vin Diesel will write the foreword for "Dungeons & Dragons" book
Source: joblo.com
Date: May 28, 2004, 8:25 am
Submitted: Junkyard


In a recent interview, action star Vin Diesel revealed that he will be writing the foreword for the 30th anniversary book of "Dungeons & Dragons."

“I spent so many years playing "Dungeons & Dragons," Diesel admits to Joblo.com.

Diesel protested his love for the role-playing game on the Conan O’Brien show, while promoting his 2003 cop thriller “A Man Apart.” He told the red headed host that he played the game for 24 years.

"Yeah, actually they've asked me to write the foreword for the 30th anniversary.” Diesel later admits, "I'm doing a lot of writing on both "Melkorsh," which is a character that I actually played in "Dungeons & Dragons" when I was younger. That's gonna be that video game that'll have a strong storybase."

Diesel currently stars in The Chronicles of Rid****,” the sci-fi sequel to “Pitch Black.” The film is set five years after the events in Pitch Black, where Rid****, the visually-gifted ex-con/hero, is caught in the middle of a galactic war. The film will open in theaters June 11.
 

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He seems like he's lost entering in there, like looking for some friend who was suposed to join him there. Then his pose.. lol That's not cool, that's the same kind of guy who is chewing gum with open mouth.
 

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gosh some people are way overanalyzing
i think the video was just supposed to give you a gist/insight
on types of bodylanguage
offcourse its not the bible or anything ..!!
 
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This must be a fawking JOKE! That short chubby weight lifting wanna be is no alpha!

This is prime example of be who you are. If your not alpha don't try to fake it like the sap in that video.

Now that was some corny assed shyt!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tell yourself, "this is my house".

I didn't think that it was that bad really.True, he is an ugly little cus', but that does not matter. He seems a little fake, but most of it was pretty good. He needs a better look, though. And the music... The music was just murder to listen to!

The dude sits alot like I do. Very relaxed and calm. My advice: be as you are in your home. Walk like its your house, talk like its your house, and move like you would in your house. But for god sake, don't dress like its your house!-- Thats the part he got wrong.

:p
 

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Walk like its your house, talk like its your house, and move like you would in your house. But for god sake, don't dress like its your house!-- Thats the part he got wrong.
ROTFL! :D

Are there any more videos of this guy doing his thing?
 

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WTF

What was that? I though you'll teach something not show off
:D :D :D :D :D lol
 

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Hahahaha. This guy looks like he walked out of a mid-80's Kurt Russell flick.

He's a Pillsbury dough-boy with no style. Oh man, those glasses are hilarious!

I DO BELIEVE he demonstrates the proper body language.

A huge problem arises because his appearance DOES NOT match his "perceived" confidence. No one EXPECTS some pudgy schmoe to be confident, so when he tries to be, it looks...off.

I agree with the guy who said if he was replaced by Vin Diesel, everyone would shut up. But no. We get clown showing us how to be "alpha."

I also could "intuit" that he felt nervous. He seemed stiff and uncomfortable. He never smiled. He looked like he was just "going through the motions" instead of having this be natural to him.

But hey, maybe he really IS confident and DOES get chicks. He was at least confident enough to post this video up. So who knows. Has anyone talked to this guy on ASF?
 

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Come on guys, looks don't matter! Look around you at how many guys just like him are getting laid left and right. It is all about attitude, baby. Style helps. Looks even help to a lesser extent. But it is all for nothing without the right mindset.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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that's some funny ****, looks like it's from the 80s.

guy needs to check his game, I bet they turned off the film cause he got shut down by those chicks
 

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That was the lamest ****ing video ever. WHAT A ****ING DORK that guy is. If I walked by him he'd quit acting that way.........what a retard.
 

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1) If you look really close, he's not alpha. It's hemorrhoids

2) What's the name of background music?
 
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Ok I just watched this shyt again. Let me also add that as an actor:

1. the fat boys body language is wooden.

2. he walks like he is acting out a role that is not natural to him.

3. look at how he puff's his arms out to the side when he walks even though his lat's and biceps are not that big.

4. It's called "blocking" and his blocking is over staged.

5. His wardrobe sucks cause the glasses do not fit the role cause he is wearing them to try to "look" tough.

6. His body language at the table with the girls was fine though. But this is because I could only see the back side view of his head...
 

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"This is prime example of be who you are. If your not alpha don't try to fake it like the sap in that video. "

Right on. I totally agree. But I also believe that's not a matter of being 'alpha'. It's about the guy's sense of maleness. Something that you can't manipulate, or fake, or act out, or 'fake till you make'. It is extremely obvious that he's trying to act out a role and 'pretend' and this is EXACTLY why we "DJs" fvck up opportunities that are pretty much given to us (that we don't even notice). He's pretending to be some "AlphaMale" man, and the only thing that is shining through is the "trying" part.

If he was to embrace his own maleness, and work on knowing and becoming HIMSELF (him now minus all of his issues that make him believe that he HAS to become Mr. Alpha at all), then he would appear much more natural, more attractive, and won't fvck up the opportunties that are handed to him.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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