"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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blinkwatt

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So I just came back from the gym. There was this chick 17-19 years old,based off of looks. Well we had some eye contact as we walked into the gym. Her dad saw me locking eyes with her and didn't do anything. Well it seemed to me that every other time that I got up from doing a work out she was eyeing me. I wanted to meet her via direct approach as she was a hb 7-8 and was obviously checking me out. Here is where I was stuck though,her dad was right by her side none-stop. I think he was teaching her how to workout. Call this dumb but would the best way to approach and de-arm her dad be by approaching him first,
Me-"Excuse me sir,may I have a moment of your time?"
Her Dad-"Sure"
Me-"Do you mind if I introduce myself to your daughter?"
Her Dad-"Go for it/Sure why not/No,no problem."

Then I go from there.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hoogie

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mmmm.... I honestly wouldnt go near that one.
That sounds like it might go down OK... but seriously... its her dad showing her how to work out... that sounds kinda protective.....
I couldnt see how its worth it.
If shes working out there your best bet is to prolly hope that shes back sometime, on her own.
 

Fash

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Hoogie said:
If shes working out there your best bet is to prolly hope that shes back sometime, on her own.
Exactly. You will almost definately catch her there on her own again.

You can even open the convo with something c+f like:

"no daddy today??? aaaah... don't worry, you can call me daddy today ;) "
 
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