"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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blinkwatt

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So I just came back from the gym. There was this chick 17-19 years old,based off of looks. Well we had some eye contact as we walked into the gym. Her dad saw me locking eyes with her and didn't do anything. Well it seemed to me that every other time that I got up from doing a work out she was eyeing me. I wanted to meet her via direct approach as she was a hb 7-8 and was obviously checking me out. Here is where I was stuck though,her dad was right by her side none-stop. I think he was teaching her how to workout. Call this dumb but would the best way to approach and de-arm her dad be by approaching him first,
Me-"Excuse me sir,may I have a moment of your time?"
Her Dad-"Sure"
Me-"Do you mind if I introduce myself to your daughter?"
Her Dad-"Go for it/Sure why not/No,no problem."

Then I go from there.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hoogie

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mmmm.... I honestly wouldnt go near that one.
That sounds like it might go down OK... but seriously... its her dad showing her how to work out... that sounds kinda protective.....
I couldnt see how its worth it.
If shes working out there your best bet is to prolly hope that shes back sometime, on her own.
 

Fash

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Hoogie said:
If shes working out there your best bet is to prolly hope that shes back sometime, on her own.
Exactly. You will almost definately catch her there on her own again.

You can even open the convo with something c+f like:

"no daddy today??? aaaah... don't worry, you can call me daddy today ;) "
 
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