"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I had a girl (trainer at my gym) that was pretty into me, and I had gone out with her once. She came up to me and suggested getting together during the week one the days she gets off earlier, i called her made plans. Next day comes and I hear nothing so i ping txt her (best when shes working) and she replies "im stuck at work:(" so i tell her to call me when she gets out..nothing. She was going away for a week that saturday..havent heard anything from her till I saw her again this week. She came up to me and told me that she was "hoping" i would come in early enough to see her (she has my #..) and was friendly but almost like im back at square 1. Should i read this as just flaky??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Definitely flaky. Just forget about her until she grows up and stops playing games. Be busy the next time she wants to hang out to show you have better things to do than be with someone who doesn't value your time. Maybe she'll realize that you have other things in your life than waiting to see if a girl calls to chill. If not, its her loss and not yours.
 
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Absolutely right, I made a point to not pick up things where they left off. She was leaving yesterday and saw me at my car and came over to talk, kind of awkward but i do read a vibe that for whatever reason she changed her mind (pretty damn quickly it seems) and maybe shes just trying to save face. What a shame, shes hot..:) It always drives me crazy because because i tend to be extremely logical, this girl was borderline infatuated one day and literally a day later she's blowing me off and the next time she sees me she's not interested? Isn't also funny that these girls are always whining about the guys they meet? ugh
 
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