"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Here I go again..

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drf408

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I had a girl (trainer at my gym) that was pretty into me, and I had gone out with her once. She came up to me and suggested getting together during the week one the days she gets off earlier, i called her made plans. Next day comes and I hear nothing so i ping txt her (best when shes working) and she replies "im stuck at work:(" so i tell her to call me when she gets out..nothing. She was going away for a week that saturday..havent heard anything from her till I saw her again this week. She came up to me and told me that she was "hoping" i would come in early enough to see her (she has my #..) and was friendly but almost like im back at square 1. Should i read this as just flaky??
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Definitely flaky. Just forget about her until she grows up and stops playing games. Be busy the next time she wants to hang out to show you have better things to do than be with someone who doesn't value your time. Maybe she'll realize that you have other things in your life than waiting to see if a girl calls to chill. If not, its her loss and not yours.
 
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Absolutely right, I made a point to not pick up things where they left off. She was leaving yesterday and saw me at my car and came over to talk, kind of awkward but i do read a vibe that for whatever reason she changed her mind (pretty damn quickly it seems) and maybe shes just trying to save face. What a shame, shes hot..:) It always drives me crazy because because i tend to be extremely logical, this girl was borderline infatuated one day and literally a day later she's blowing me off and the next time she sees me she's not interested? Isn't also funny that these girls are always whining about the guys they meet? ugh
 
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