"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I had a girl (trainer at my gym) that was pretty into me, and I had gone out with her once. She came up to me and suggested getting together during the week one the days she gets off earlier, i called her made plans. Next day comes and I hear nothing so i ping txt her (best when shes working) and she replies "im stuck at work:(" so i tell her to call me when she gets out..nothing. She was going away for a week that saturday..havent heard anything from her till I saw her again this week. She came up to me and told me that she was "hoping" i would come in early enough to see her (she has my #..) and was friendly but almost like im back at square 1. Should i read this as just flaky??
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Definitely flaky. Just forget about her until she grows up and stops playing games. Be busy the next time she wants to hang out to show you have better things to do than be with someone who doesn't value your time. Maybe she'll realize that you have other things in your life than waiting to see if a girl calls to chill. If not, its her loss and not yours.
 
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Absolutely right, I made a point to not pick up things where they left off. She was leaving yesterday and saw me at my car and came over to talk, kind of awkward but i do read a vibe that for whatever reason she changed her mind (pretty damn quickly it seems) and maybe shes just trying to save face. What a shame, shes hot..:) It always drives me crazy because because i tend to be extremely logical, this girl was borderline infatuated one day and literally a day later she's blowing me off and the next time she sees me she's not interested? Isn't also funny that these girls are always whining about the guys they meet? ugh
 
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