"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Her: "You're Hot"...response?

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Tonight i ran into a senior chick who wanted my nuts at a party about 2 weeks ago. I've seen ehr liek twice at school lol. I ahve class with her little sister :p . Shes decent..probably wouldn't hookup with her.

But then during the conversation she was like "You're cute"
and I just said"lol...ok?" How am I supposed ot respond.
then 5 minutes later she goes "heh, ur hot"
and i'm like.."thanks?lol" i was speechless.

How do you respond to a girl telling you you're hott? WTF am I supposed to say?lol....anyone else ran into this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Too bad you're not or we could have hooked up.

Yes, I've used it. Yes, it's worked. She acts sad and you make it up to her.

What she did to you was the most obvious I WANT TO **** ever.
 
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How do you respond to a girl telling you you're hott? WTF am I supposed to say?lol....anyone else ran into this?
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"Come on....I;ve heard a lot of cheesy pick up lines before but jeez."

"How original"
 
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Lik I know lol. Like i said she wnated my nuts at a party 2 weeks back. It made no sense thoguh..her and the guy I was talking to[the reason she complimented me the 2nd time was because I was ignoring her,talking to the guy] were liekl holding hands lol n when they walked away they looked liek a couple lol. I was lost. :p
Thanks guys, good ideas there. Def use em in the future.
 
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what about "thank you"?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I've ran into a situation like that.

I was at my friends house and his sister was there (15 even though I thought she was 16). So I was drunk along with like 6 of my good friends, and his sister just started going off about how everyone was so hot, then she focused all her attention on me. I just kinda ignored it (i mean its my friends sister!) but she kept going, then i went and in another room for a while. I guess she didn't let it go, and she came in there and i kissed her... you can guess what happened after that :(, no not that sicko :p

It was a bad night :(

Moral of the story: Don't go after drunk chicks who call you hot if they're your friends sister...


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her: you're hot...

me: i know.


her: you're hot...

me: sizzling baby.. -wink-

her: -blush blush giggle-





these are just 2 that i've used. works pretty well, makes them really shy.
 
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This is how it's done.




Her: Your hot...


You: Are you sure?


Her: Yes!!


You: (makes loud fart)


You: Am I still hot?


Her: :confused:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hahaha... nice one... but something i'd never try.
 
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Originally posted by Helter Skelter
This is how it's done.

Her: Your hot...


You: Are you sure?


Her: Yes!!


You: (makes loud fart)


You: Am I still hot?


Her: :confused:
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Rofl.

Try that, and tell me what the number of girls actually stick around after that.:D
 
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how about telling her that you don't value looks. rather you want to understand how your hotness makes her feel & what she would like to do because of it. ;-)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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