"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Her: "You're Hot"...response?

Patrick124

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Tonight i ran into a senior chick who wanted my nuts at a party about 2 weeks ago. I've seen ehr liek twice at school lol. I ahve class with her little sister :p . Shes decent..probably wouldn't hookup with her.

But then during the conversation she was like "You're cute"
and I just said"lol...ok?" How am I supposed ot respond.
then 5 minutes later she goes "heh, ur hot"
and i'm like.."thanks?lol" i was speechless.

How do you respond to a girl telling you you're hott? WTF am I supposed to say?lol....anyone else ran into this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LikRetsam

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Too bad you're not or we could have hooked up.

Yes, I've used it. Yes, it's worked. She acts sad and you make it up to her.

What she did to you was the most obvious I WANT TO **** ever.
 

InsidiousNstinct

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How do you respond to a girl telling you you're hott? WTF am I supposed to say?lol....anyone else ran into this?
"Come on....I;ve heard a lot of cheesy pick up lines before but jeez."

"How original"
 

Patrick124

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Lik I know lol. Like i said she wnated my nuts at a party 2 weeks back. It made no sense thoguh..her and the guy I was talking to[the reason she complimented me the 2nd time was because I was ignoring her,talking to the guy] were liekl holding hands lol n when they walked away they looked liek a couple lol. I was lost. :p
Thanks guys, good ideas there. Def use em in the future.
 

Porky

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what about "thank you"?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Vincent

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I've ran into a situation like that.

I was at my friends house and his sister was there (15 even though I thought she was 16). So I was drunk along with like 6 of my good friends, and his sister just started going off about how everyone was so hot, then she focused all her attention on me. I just kinda ignored it (i mean its my friends sister!) but she kept going, then i went and in another room for a while. I guess she didn't let it go, and she came in there and i kissed her... you can guess what happened after that :(, no not that sicko :p

It was a bad night :(

Moral of the story: Don't go after drunk chicks who call you hot if they're your friends sister...


*End vent*
 

jakeyboy

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her: you're hot...

me: i know.


her: you're hot...

me: sizzling baby.. -wink-

her: -blush blush giggle-





these are just 2 that i've used. works pretty well, makes them really shy.
 

Helter Skelter

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This is how it's done.




Her: Your hot...


You: Are you sure?


Her: Yes!!


You: (makes loud fart)


You: Am I still hot?


Her: :confused:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jakeyboy

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hahaha... nice one... but something i'd never try.
 

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Originally posted by Helter Skelter
This is how it's done.

Her: Your hot...


You: Are you sure?


Her: Yes!!


You: (makes loud fart)


You: Am I still hot?


Her: :confused:
Rofl.

Try that, and tell me what the number of girls actually stick around after that.:D
 

MagiKMaK

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how about telling her that you don't value looks. rather you want to understand how your hotness makes her feel & what she would like to do because of it. ;-)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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