HER trying to take the upperhand!

[PlayCold]

Just received a text from a girl I called last week who I want to have a drink with.

So last week I told her that this Saturday I have time (which is today) but she didn't know for sure.


But I just receive a text saying:
"Hi! Sorry for my really late response.. I can't go tonight, shall I text you this week about when we could have a drink? Xx"


I have a feeling she is trying to take control over when we could go. In this case I don't really care that much because I DO HAVE a busy schedule, so small chance that when she proposes something I have time.



Just let it go and have her lead the time? Or better to say I have a busy schedule and propose some days I have time?

 

[Tesl]

Just received a text from a girl I called last week who I want to have a drink with.

So last week I told her that this Saturday I have time (which is today) but she didn't know for sure.


But I just receive a text saying:
"Hi! Sorry for my really late response.. I can't go tonight, shall I text you this week about when we could have a drink? Xx"


I have a feeling she is trying to take control over when we could go. In this case I don't really care that much because I DO HAVE a busy schedule, so small chance that when she proposes something I have time.



Just let it go and have her lead the time? Or better to say I have a busy schedule and propose some days I have time?

Given your schedule is legitimately busy, wouldn't it make sense to tell her that and propose your own times?

 

[PlayCold]

Given your schedule is legitimately busy, wouldn't it make sense to tell her that and propose your own times?

I already kinda explained that to her. But I will just tell her that again and suggest another day...

 

[maqnetik]

look at it this way:

she doesnt value your time so you owe her one.... blow her off when she calls you back.