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Just received a text from a girl I called last week who I want to have a drink with.

So last week I told her that this Saturday I have time (which is today) but she didn't know for sure.


But I just receive a text saying:
"Hi! Sorry for my really late response.. I can't go tonight, shall I text you this week about when we could have a drink? Xx"


I have a feeling she is trying to take control over when we could go. In this case I don't really care that much because I DO HAVE a busy schedule, so small chance that when she proposes something I have time.



Just let it go and have her lead the time? Or better to say I have a busy schedule and propose some days I have time?
 

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PlayCold said:
Just received a text from a girl I called last week who I want to have a drink with.

So last week I told her that this Saturday I have time (which is today) but she didn't know for sure.


But I just receive a text saying:
"Hi! Sorry for my really late response.. I can't go tonight, shall I text you this week about when we could have a drink? Xx"


I have a feeling she is trying to take control over when we could go. In this case I don't really care that much because I DO HAVE a busy schedule, so small chance that when she proposes something I have time.



Just let it go and have her lead the time? Or better to say I have a busy schedule and propose some days I have time?
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Given your schedule is legitimately busy, wouldn't it make sense to tell her that and propose your own times?
 
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Tesl said:
Given your schedule is legitimately busy, wouldn't it make sense to tell her that and propose your own times?
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I already kinda explained that to her. But I will just tell her that again and suggest another day...
 
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