Her prom.. and remaining unofficial.

[Patrick124]

My kinda-sorta girl[kinda has a slutty rep, but shes a fun girl n shes faithful as of now. also hott n enjoy her.] is a senior and I'm a junior. and Prom is on its way.
I'm wondering if its my job to ask her to HER prom? or..do i wait to see if she asks me[in which case, if she never does, I watch my girl go off and have the night of he rlife with someone else n probably fvck em.]
she also wants me to ask her out..shes brought it up like 100 times how she wants me to officially ask her out. Thats not what I want. I want a care-free relationship with no tie-down boyfriend-girlfriend status. i mean we'd be together n whatnot..but i'm not trying to drag my name down in her reputation[its a bad one...i'll explain if u want...n it snto that she has an STD lol].
help on both questions?
-pat.

 

[six-foot AZN '05]

Hey man good job. You got a fun girl on your hands for prom.

Ask her out but on your terms. Set the rules of the relationship. See how she feels about your freedom. If she likes you a lot then she'll probably agree to most of the stuff you want to prevent from being too tied down. But she may get crazy. Its your world and you don't have to do anything you don't want too.

It seems that you want to ask her to prom so do it as friends. Whatever happens that night well was "spontaneous" and girls like that anyways. Just try to play it off cool and get the prom thing straight and if she's still cool after prom then go next step relationship phase.

Go git er done (stay safe man)

 

[girlsarecrazy]

Watch out for the ones who just want a date to only go to prom with so she isn't the one without a date.. She might ditch you at the actual dance.

 

[Patrick124]

i've been unofficially with this girl since valentines day. she ahs told em she wnast me to ask ehr out like gf-bf status..not to prom.
she wouldn't ditch me, this girl loves my **** like a fatty loves cake.

 

[girlsarecrazy]

Wait until you hook up. Then talk about where this unofficial relationship is going. She has to bring up something about exclusiveness before though.

 

[Patrick124]

we fvck all the time haha.
my question was merely if i should ask her to HER prom..or should she ask me?[cause she may never ask me..]
and how should i go about explaining how i like how things are right now n just want to have fun with it[without making her hate me/stop the sex..cause no sex would be dissappointing.]
guess i shoulda made that clear in the first post.