"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Her prom.. and remaining unofficial.

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My kinda-sorta girl[kinda has a slutty rep, but shes a fun girl n shes faithful as of now. also hott n enjoy her.] is a senior and I'm a junior. and Prom is on its way.
I'm wondering if its my job to ask her to HER prom? or..do i wait to see if she asks me[in which case, if she never does, I watch my girl go off and have the night of he rlife with someone else n probably fvck em.]
she also wants me to ask her out..shes brought it up like 100 times how she wants me to officially ask her out. Thats not what I want. I want a care-free relationship with no tie-down boyfriend-girlfriend status. i mean we'd be together n whatnot..but i'm not trying to drag my name down in her reputation[its a bad one...i'll explain if u want...n it snto that she has an STD lol].
help on both questions?
-pat.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hey man good job. You got a fun girl on your hands for prom.

Ask her out but on your terms. Set the rules of the relationship. See how she feels about your freedom. If she likes you a lot then she'll probably agree to most of the stuff you want to prevent from being too tied down. But she may get crazy. Its your world and you don't have to do anything you don't want too.

It seems that you want to ask her to prom so do it as friends. Whatever happens that night well was "spontaneous" and girls like that anyways. Just try to play it off cool and get the prom thing straight and if she's still cool after prom then go next step relationship phase.

Go git er done (stay safe man)
 
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Watch out for the ones who just want a date to only go to prom with so she isn't the one without a date.. She might ditch you at the actual dance.
 
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i've been unofficially with this girl since valentines day. she ahs told em she wnast me to ask ehr out like gf-bf status..not to prom.
she wouldn't ditch me, this girl loves my **** like a fatty loves cake. :)
 
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Wait until you hook up. Then talk about where this unofficial relationship is going. She has to bring up something about exclusiveness before though.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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we fvck all the time haha.
my question was merely if i should ask her to HER prom..or should she ask me?[cause she may never ask me..]
and how should i go about explaining how i like how things are right now n just want to have fun with it[without making her hate me/stop the sex..cause no sex would be dissappointing.]
guess i shoulda made that clear in the first post.
 
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