"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Her prom.. and remaining unofficial.

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My kinda-sorta girl[kinda has a slutty rep, but shes a fun girl n shes faithful as of now. also hott n enjoy her.] is a senior and I'm a junior. and Prom is on its way.
I'm wondering if its my job to ask her to HER prom? or..do i wait to see if she asks me[in which case, if she never does, I watch my girl go off and have the night of he rlife with someone else n probably fvck em.]
she also wants me to ask her out..shes brought it up like 100 times how she wants me to officially ask her out. Thats not what I want. I want a care-free relationship with no tie-down boyfriend-girlfriend status. i mean we'd be together n whatnot..but i'm not trying to drag my name down in her reputation[its a bad one...i'll explain if u want...n it snto that she has an STD lol].
help on both questions?
-pat.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey man good job. You got a fun girl on your hands for prom.

Ask her out but on your terms. Set the rules of the relationship. See how she feels about your freedom. If she likes you a lot then she'll probably agree to most of the stuff you want to prevent from being too tied down. But she may get crazy. Its your world and you don't have to do anything you don't want too.

It seems that you want to ask her to prom so do it as friends. Whatever happens that night well was "spontaneous" and girls like that anyways. Just try to play it off cool and get the prom thing straight and if she's still cool after prom then go next step relationship phase.

Go git er done (stay safe man)
 
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Watch out for the ones who just want a date to only go to prom with so she isn't the one without a date.. She might ditch you at the actual dance.
 
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i've been unofficially with this girl since valentines day. she ahs told em she wnast me to ask ehr out like gf-bf status..not to prom.
she wouldn't ditch me, this girl loves my **** like a fatty loves cake. :)
 
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Wait until you hook up. Then talk about where this unofficial relationship is going. She has to bring up something about exclusiveness before though.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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we fvck all the time haha.
my question was merely if i should ask her to HER prom..or should she ask me?[cause she may never ask me..]
and how should i go about explaining how i like how things are right now n just want to have fun with it[without making her hate me/stop the sex..cause no sex would be dissappointing.]
guess i shoulda made that clear in the first post.
 
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