Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Daniel1099

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DAMN!!!

where do i get started!!!

me and this girl dated for a while. i broke up with her because we could never be alone. her parents never let her go out...it was ridiculous.

She values her family over anything...then come friends. then comes BF...

but i still want sh!t to work out...

how do i help with this situation...

i feel like im always the one trying to get together. and go on dates. and fight for the relationship...

her parents have a tracker on her phone and car...they are INSANE
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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saturos

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You either have to tell her you can't deal with the circumstances, or drop her, and explain that you can't deal with the circumstances.
If she is into you, she might change it up a little, but it seems to me like this case is best handled by just quitting it and explaining why.
 

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tracker on her phone and car wtf?!

drop it bro. Sounds like a lot to put up with.
 

Daniel1099

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yeah ill see how things go

il keep it at a flirt level. FWB type of thang.

and see other females
 

It's-Me

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Her parents are fvcking crazy.

You can have supper at her house, and drug her parents to sleep. Hahha and than bang the sh1t out of her.

Seriously, you should to meet her parents, impress them or at least show than your a great guy for her and they'll probably let her go out with you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Daniel1099

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they checked her myspace and saw that i had pictures of smoking hookah and curse words everywhere (christian parents).

so yeah this whole thing just sucks
 
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