"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Daniel1099

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DAMN!!!

where do i get started!!!

me and this girl dated for a while. i broke up with her because we could never be alone. her parents never let her go out...it was ridiculous.

She values her family over anything...then come friends. then comes BF...

but i still want sh!t to work out...

how do i help with this situation...

i feel like im always the one trying to get together. and go on dates. and fight for the relationship...

her parents have a tracker on her phone and car...they are INSANE
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You either have to tell her you can't deal with the circumstances, or drop her, and explain that you can't deal with the circumstances.
If she is into you, she might change it up a little, but it seems to me like this case is best handled by just quitting it and explaining why.
 
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tracker on her phone and car wtf?!

drop it bro. Sounds like a lot to put up with.
 
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yeah ill see how things go

il keep it at a flirt level. FWB type of thang.

and see other females
 
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Her parents are fvcking crazy.

You can have supper at her house, and drug her parents to sleep. Hahha and than bang the sh1t out of her.

Seriously, you should to meet her parents, impress them or at least show than your a great guy for her and they'll probably let her go out with you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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they checked her myspace and saw that i had pictures of smoking hookah and curse words everywhere (christian parents).

so yeah this whole thing just sucks
 
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