"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Her P is kinda loose though....

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Well again as yall know the girl that ive been tryint to bang i finally did, and today i did for the second time, tomorrow i will again too :) but my prob is that her vagina is kinda loose , she did tell me that she had sex with 2 other guys before me, and thats cool with me, whatever, but is like itll be tight at first but as soon as i go in it just withens up and it feels too lose, i know that there is nothing i can do about that, but im kinda disappointed on her cause i didnt know that she was that kinda girl, that has had sex a whole bunch of times for it to be that loose.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Uh yeah, may you're just fvcking slim yourself dude? :D

Hah, ok, get her to do kegeling exercises, and tense/flex when you're inside her. As well as giving her an oral orgasm should help tighten that up.
 

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There is nothing you can do about it. Yeah its harder to get off but if she is loose and you are not satisfied then go out with other chicks or ask her if she could satisfy you in "other ways".
 

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Hi Bfl,

You seem like a really sweet guy so i just had to respond to this. Please understand that a woman's looseness has nothing to do with how many guys she's been with. Please, please understand this. A woman's tightness or looseness has everything to do with heredity and elasticity, period! The biggest slut out there could have a very tight vagina, and a woman who's only been with one guy could be loose. Don't blame her sexual activity for her looseness, blame her mama and her papa.

I understand it might be disapponting but would you rather her have my problem? Every guy I've been with has *** too fast because I am extraordinarily tight. And believe me, I have been in two long term relationships and I've had a lot of sex. I've even given birth to four children! Vaginally! Sometimes sex hurts because of the tightness too. I finally asked my gyno why I was so tight just recently and she explained the hereditary/elasticity thing to me. It has nothing to do with how much sex or how many partners.

I would hate for you to judge this girl falsely just based on the looseness of her vagina, especially if she's innocent and you really like her.

I hope this helps.
SB;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Whats the girth of your **** ? That has a lot to do with it. If your under average girth of 5 inches, you might feel more looseness than average.
 

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No idea what a kegel is...but

I have been with a lady who I would consider loose. What I did was try new positions :). Try her on her side, with her leg together...etc..whatever is creating more pressure for both you and her.

I'm sure you can look up sex positions on the internet and find some for yourself that you're willing to try.
 

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I'm sure you can look up kegels on the internet and find some for yourself that you're willing to try.


You orgasm harder yourself, have a harder erection and can last longer. Now.........GO!
 

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Yeah,

And you can't tell from the outside either.

What I mean is, I've been out with a tall big boned girl and she had a nice tight one.

I also shagged a very petite girl who was 5' and she was like a Tardis!
 

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bfl:

Before, i had this impression too - that if a girl's loose, then she's been with lotsa guys.

However, it depends on :

(a) how solid your erections are when you're having sex (related to how turned on you are, your state of mind, stress, alcohol etc)
(b) her genetics i.e. her inner vaginal walls is naturally designed that way
(c) the sexual position (experiment !)
(d) your girth
(e) if she's given birth

Ask any good gyno , they'll probabaly tell ya the same ;)

Go with the Kegel exercises and experiment using different techniques.

Xenopus
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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just be thankfull it doesn't really stink! I've encountered some stinky *****.. and that **** is just NASTY!

also.. yeah she is a little hoe. That explains her anit-slut defence that she gave you before. You only get anit-slut defence from a slut.

You are going to have to accept her for being a sluty girl or you can just move on to other girls and not worry about it.

also try doing her doggy style or something like that it might feel better.
 

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"but my prob is that her vagina is kinda loose"

thats why God gave her an ass, too. PIITB.

-SLB
 

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Originally posted by strong like bull
"but my prob is that her vagina is kinda loose"

thats why God gave her an ass, too. PIITB.

-SLB
lol... I was going to say something like that, but I didn't.
 

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Hehe, that is what a kegel is . Such a innocent word
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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aight yall thanx for yall advice and views on this, and by the way im like around 7 inches, she said that im long when i asked her but then, bwaaaaaa dont they all say that just so they dont hurt you.... but thanx though.
 

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7 inches is a good size/length, but we said GIRTH.
If you're having trouble with that concept, please use www.dictionary.com



Originally posted by ^_^
Hehe, that is what a kegel is . Such a innocent word
Sounds like you have not searched it up online, please do. Educate yourself.
 

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i dont know about girth im guessing like 1 inch or 1inch and a half
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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