"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Her interest in me

defiancy

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Well guys, I'm after another girl and she is showing me very confusing signs so I wonder if you can interepret this further than what I know about body language:
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i try to establish eye contact but she just seems to notice it but avoids it.

When she walks around and is about to sit down in her seat, I try eye contact once more, but she looks down (hmm )

She talks to other people who are near me very frequently.

She crosses her legs and has the same body postition of me ( I read something about his :p)

At the corner of my eye I see her look at me occasionally
__________oh yea can this be a test?
Very confusing..........
I'l give you more updates tomorrow...which is friday tomorrow
in the meantime leave some comments
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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MisterAl

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You can't really know her interest until you talk to her. Talk to her, and don't post any updates until you do.
 

DJ_Dork

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girls can falsify interest to get attention/attraction.
girls can hide their interest when they really like you.
girls can show no interest and are truly not interested in you.

it's kinda hard man, some say just talk to her and see how she engages you is one thing. some say if she keeps touching you that is another thing.

that's why the kiss test cuts through all the bullcrap. if you're scared like many so called djs (more like afcs) to do that, then don't. do what you feel - eventually she will be forced to make a move cause girls ALWAYS know when a guy likes her.
 

JT47319

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Gee, where do all these AFCs come from?

All those indicators BARELY add up to just ONE IOI (indicator of interest). Listen, if she was touching your arm or laughing at your jokes or buying you a drink, you'd obviously have strong attraction. As it is, it sounds like she might BARELY be interested in you... as a friend.

You're not going to know until you # and kiss close that ass. Make a move. If it doesn't work out, move to the next piece of tail.
 
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