"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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defiancy

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Well guys, I'm after another girl and she is showing me very confusing signs so I wonder if you can interepret this further than what I know about body language:
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i try to establish eye contact but she just seems to notice it but avoids it.

When she walks around and is about to sit down in her seat, I try eye contact once more, but she looks down (hmm )

She talks to other people who are near me very frequently.

She crosses her legs and has the same body postition of me ( I read something about his :p)

At the corner of my eye I see her look at me occasionally
__________oh yea can this be a test?
Very confusing..........
I'l give you more updates tomorrow...which is friday tomorrow
in the meantime leave some comments
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You can't really know her interest until you talk to her. Talk to her, and don't post any updates until you do.
 

DJ_Dork

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girls can falsify interest to get attention/attraction.
girls can hide their interest when they really like you.
girls can show no interest and are truly not interested in you.

it's kinda hard man, some say just talk to her and see how she engages you is one thing. some say if she keeps touching you that is another thing.

that's why the kiss test cuts through all the bullcrap. if you're scared like many so called djs (more like afcs) to do that, then don't. do what you feel - eventually she will be forced to make a move cause girls ALWAYS know when a guy likes her.
 

JT47319

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Gee, where do all these AFCs come from?

All those indicators BARELY add up to just ONE IOI (indicator of interest). Listen, if she was touching your arm or laughing at your jokes or buying you a drink, you'd obviously have strong attraction. As it is, it sounds like she might BARELY be interested in you... as a friend.

You're not going to know until you # and kiss close that ass. Make a move. If it doesn't work out, move to the next piece of tail.
 
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