"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Her freind also likes me

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Lets call girl 1 Alice and her freind Mel. They both liked me. However, Mel made Alice promise her never to date me since she liked me. The day that I told Mel I didnt like her, I asked Alice to go skating with me when most of my friends and her friends go skating ( we go every week). She said she wasnt sure because it would hurt Mel. Then when i was like yes or no, she was like i dunno. I was thinking that either id show up there with a really hot girl, or show up and skate with Alice anyways and see what happens. What do you think, What should i do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ok well personally I dont think you should turn up with another girl. If you like Alice that much ask her,and if Mel was that good of a friend she would understand. plus would ALice expect Mel to do the same? I doubt it
 
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These happend to me. I use to have the biggest crush with these girl named Yaviel and her best friend Jessie liked me. I got close to Yavi but Yavi was supposed to help Jessie get hooked up with me so she felt really bad when i asked her if we could go out because that will make her a bad friend.

Long story short i snuck over Yanvis house and the whole night she was feeling a bit guilty but we still did what i hope we could do, although we never ended up dating because after that night Jessie found out and i guess i wasnt worth ruining there friendship. But i got what i wanted out of it, if shes not sure like mine was trust me all you have to do is push it a little more and take control. My Mel, Jessie dint understand she got all pissed and got mad at Yanviel which then made her feel even more guilty and totally ruined my chances.
 
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It's not as unlucky as one of my mates. He liked a girl, and the SISTER of the girl liked him. So he had to tell the younger sister that he liked the older sister....it was just so confusing. It took him 5 DAYS to gather the courage for it. Damn it was annoying lol...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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