"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Her freind also likes me

DonAlan456

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Lets call girl 1 Alice and her freind Mel. They both liked me. However, Mel made Alice promise her never to date me since she liked me. The day that I told Mel I didnt like her, I asked Alice to go skating with me when most of my friends and her friends go skating ( we go every week). She said she wasnt sure because it would hurt Mel. Then when i was like yes or no, she was like i dunno. I was thinking that either id show up there with a really hot girl, or show up and skate with Alice anyways and see what happens. What do you think, What should i do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ok well personally I dont think you should turn up with another girl. If you like Alice that much ask her,and if Mel was that good of a friend she would understand. plus would ALice expect Mel to do the same? I doubt it
 

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These happend to me. I use to have the biggest crush with these girl named Yaviel and her best friend Jessie liked me. I got close to Yavi but Yavi was supposed to help Jessie get hooked up with me so she felt really bad when i asked her if we could go out because that will make her a bad friend.

Long story short i snuck over Yanvis house and the whole night she was feeling a bit guilty but we still did what i hope we could do, although we never ended up dating because after that night Jessie found out and i guess i wasnt worth ruining there friendship. But i got what i wanted out of it, if shes not sure like mine was trust me all you have to do is push it a little more and take control. My Mel, Jessie dint understand she got all pissed and got mad at Yanviel which then made her feel even more guilty and totally ruined my chances.
 

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It's not as unlucky as one of my mates. He liked a girl, and the SISTER of the girl liked him. So he had to tell the younger sister that he liked the older sister....it was just so confusing. It took him 5 DAYS to gather the courage for it. Damn it was annoying lol...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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