She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Xomel, your input is not appreciated.Originally posted by xomel
You're a **** for that and I hope karma gets you back. But then again, shes a stupid hoe and deserved it
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Well, that's basically what i did. i held her up with her ass halfway in the trash and fully put her in after the kiss.Originally posted by JSH
Wouldnt it have been better, if you had held her above a bin and then kissed her. Dropping her in afterwards
yeah i agree, it is all about having fun. I have kinda come round to your point of view, since i can see that it is the kind of thing i might have done. I just think that the way you portrayed it really alienated me at first. Hell, i probably come across like that, thanks for teaching me a valuable lesson.
wow...i wish all 'arguements' were that simple.Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
with REAL DJS...they areOriginally posted by AdrenalynJunkee
Classic. Absolute classic.Originally posted by gRiM999
Here's a funny little sumn sumn for yalls:
Ok, so yesterday, i was out with this inexperienced girl. I was giving her the Silent Treatment (long story) while she was just following me around just BEGGING me to talk to her. It was after school, and we walked to jamba juice while i didnt say anything to her. After that, we walked to the park and i sat down on a bench. I signaled her to sit down and she did. Eventually she caught on to the silence thing cuz i was laughing when she was begging - "you're not really mad at me, are you!?"
Twas funny sh!t.
While i started talking to her again, i initiated lotsa kino and told her to come into my arm. There was cuddling on the bench and etc. Eventually, she had to leave, so we stand up and i hug her. Then, i pick her up and start walking to the trash can. She was all "OMG" and she was squirming and tryin to fight herself out (in vain, of course)
then i hold her halfway in the trash can and shes all freakin out, so i tell her to relax and calm down. I tell her to close her eyes, then i gave the girl her first kiss. She responded well and reciprocated. After that, i leave her in the trash can and walk away
Great and embarrassing first kiss for her, eh?