I got a ? We all know getting her # is the whole purpose of talking to her, but what is she feeling when she give it to you. Is it a, "At least he tried." feeling or a, "I feel sorry for him." and give you her number. Is it a, "I really like him please call." What goes threw a women head when she gives out her #.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Her feelings when she gives you her #
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Coupe De Grace
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hrmmz not sure im guessing they have an intrest depending on how you got to know them and how long you've talked to them or got to know them for and plus how good you gamed them. Obviously they would have a intrest no matter what if they give you their real number.. they have an intrest but iguess in terms of being friend or someone they'd date is determiend how you performed not to sure good question though
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maybe she just gave it to you to get rid of you..
I recently gave a guy my CELL phone number only because he would not STOP following and talking to me. He's been calling me, I have not answered.
The great thing about giving your cell phone, you can always just shut it off and I don't have an answering machine, therefore he can't leave me ANY message..
it all depends on the girl..maybe she liked you. did she answer the phone when you called?
I recently gave a guy my CELL phone number only because he would not STOP following and talking to me. He's been calling me, I have not answered.
The great thing about giving your cell phone, you can always just shut it off and I don't have an answering machine, therefore he can't leave me ANY message..
it all depends on the girl..maybe she liked you. did she answer the phone when you called?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Call her up and ask.Dearl said:I got a ? We all know getting her # is the whole purpose of talking to her, but what is she feeling when she give it to you. Is it a, "At least he tried." feeling or a, "I feel sorry for him." and give you her number. Is it a, "I really like him please call." What goes threw a women head when she gives out her #.
Thundercat
Don Juan
Hi Dearl,Dearl said:I got a ? We all know getting her # is the whole purpose of talking to her, but what is she feeling when she give it to you. Is it a, "At least he tried." feeling or a, "I feel sorry for him." and give you her number. Is it a, "I really like him please call." What goes threw a women head when she gives out her #.
It all depends. I say this because there are two factors involved in every number-close.
Factor 1 is the Girl.
Factor 2 is how well you gamed her.
You could game a girl to perfection, but maybe she just isn't in the dating mood, so she doesn't call you back.
Maybe the girl is open to dating, but you didn't game her all that well.
There is a big list of things that can go wrong with getting a good, solid number-close. But the best way to know what a girl is thinking is to PAY ATTENTION to her.
Understand that women will let you know how you're doing based on their body language. If their body language is good, you can be pretty certain the number is of quality.
If their body language is bad, it's either a fake number or she won't be answering your calls.
But also take into consideration these factors:
With Caller ID, lots of women won't pick up numbers they don't recognise.
You have to make sure you call while you're still fresh in the woman's mind. Waiting 2-3 days is not a good idea in my opinion, because it gives her a chance to forget about you.
So long answer made short: Pay attention to her body language, and that will let you know if she really likes you, or she's giving you a number to just "go away."
Hope that helps.
Thundercat
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Who cares what she feels when she gives you her number. You will find out later when you call her.
Man I think I got sent off DJ's. I was busy the first 2 weeks and didn't call her. (Roamin charges is a *****.) So I called her today and I got the "Message LB" bull****! I was ****in pissed cause I really wanted to **** this girl. I don't no what that deal was because me and her is pretty cool on that relationship level and maybe her phone really is turned off....I don't no but I'm ****in pissed I think I got sent!
Since when do her feelings matter?Dearl said:I got a ? We all know getting her # is the whole purpose of talking to her, but what is she feeling when she give it to you. Is it a, "At least he tried." feeling or a, "I feel sorry for him." and give you her number. Is it a, "I really like him please call." What goes threw a women head when she gives out her #.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Try calling her again in a couple days. If she doesn't return your call then forget about her.