I got a ? We all know getting her # is the whole purpose of talking to her, but what is she feeling when she give it to you. Is it a, "At least he tried." feeling or a, "I feel sorry for him." and give you her number. Is it a, "I really like him please call." What goes threw a women head when she gives out her #.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Her feelings when she gives you her #
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Coupe De Grace
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hrmmz not sure im guessing they have an intrest depending on how you got to know them and how long you've talked to them or got to know them for and plus how good you gamed them. Obviously they would have a intrest no matter what if they give you their real number.. they have an intrest but iguess in terms of being friend or someone they'd date is determiend how you performed not to sure good question though
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maybe she just gave it to you to get rid of you..
I recently gave a guy my CELL phone number only because he would not STOP following and talking to me. He's been calling me, I have not answered.
The great thing about giving your cell phone, you can always just shut it off and I don't have an answering machine, therefore he can't leave me ANY message..
it all depends on the girl..maybe she liked you. did she answer the phone when you called?
I recently gave a guy my CELL phone number only because he would not STOP following and talking to me. He's been calling me, I have not answered.
The great thing about giving your cell phone, you can always just shut it off and I don't have an answering machine, therefore he can't leave me ANY message..
it all depends on the girl..maybe she liked you. did she answer the phone when you called?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Call her up and ask.Dearl said:I got a ? We all know getting her # is the whole purpose of talking to her, but what is she feeling when she give it to you. Is it a, "At least he tried." feeling or a, "I feel sorry for him." and give you her number. Is it a, "I really like him please call." What goes threw a women head when she gives out her #.
Thundercat
Don Juan
Hi Dearl,Dearl said:I got a ? We all know getting her # is the whole purpose of talking to her, but what is she feeling when she give it to you. Is it a, "At least he tried." feeling or a, "I feel sorry for him." and give you her number. Is it a, "I really like him please call." What goes threw a women head when she gives out her #.
It all depends. I say this because there are two factors involved in every number-close.
Factor 1 is the Girl.
Factor 2 is how well you gamed her.
You could game a girl to perfection, but maybe she just isn't in the dating mood, so she doesn't call you back.
Maybe the girl is open to dating, but you didn't game her all that well.
There is a big list of things that can go wrong with getting a good, solid number-close. But the best way to know what a girl is thinking is to PAY ATTENTION to her.
Understand that women will let you know how you're doing based on their body language. If their body language is good, you can be pretty certain the number is of quality.
If their body language is bad, it's either a fake number or she won't be answering your calls.
But also take into consideration these factors:
With Caller ID, lots of women won't pick up numbers they don't recognise.
You have to make sure you call while you're still fresh in the woman's mind. Waiting 2-3 days is not a good idea in my opinion, because it gives her a chance to forget about you.
So long answer made short: Pay attention to her body language, and that will let you know if she really likes you, or she's giving you a number to just "go away."
Hope that helps.
Thundercat
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Who cares what she feels when she gives you her number. You will find out later when you call her.
Man I think I got sent off DJ's. I was busy the first 2 weeks and didn't call her. (Roamin charges is a *****.) So I called her today and I got the "Message LB" bull****! I was ****in pissed cause I really wanted to **** this girl. I don't no what that deal was because me and her is pretty cool on that relationship level and maybe her phone really is turned off....I don't no but I'm ****in pissed I think I got sent!
Since when do her feelings matter?Dearl said:I got a ? We all know getting her # is the whole purpose of talking to her, but what is she feeling when she give it to you. Is it a, "At least he tried." feeling or a, "I feel sorry for him." and give you her number. Is it a, "I really like him please call." What goes threw a women head when she gives out her #.
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
Try calling her again in a couple days. If she doesn't return your call then forget about her.