"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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her brother found out

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ok this girl that i have a thing with.. her brother found out and im pretty sure he wants to kill me, which i have no problem fighting him but w/e. the thing is, im not friends with her brother/her brothers friends anymore (not because of this) so they are always telling her bad **** about or to stay away from me...apparently she doesnt care but with her brother knowing this jus makes it harder for us to chill because 1. cant fvck her at her house now 2. her brother friends are always saying bad things about me when they see her which will jus put bad things into her head.

do i just end it or see how it plays out?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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redbullfbu said:
do i just end it or see how it plays out?
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NO and NO! confusing? read on.

you shouldnt end a relationship with someone because of other people's attitudes and beliefs. believe me, a year ago i was in the same situation as you, i ended the relationship, and i turned into the biggest AFC loser in the world. (long story, no one cares) but now, i can honestly say, im smarter, stronger, and better, and things like this dont hurt me anymore, they just give me experience.

second note, you shouldnt see how it plays out. YOU should take action. the best thing to do is to be friends with her brother. yes you read correctly, be friends. the more he can trust you, its for the better. you should respect him, not fear him, and he should respect you to.
 
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so become the alpha and make him look up to you

- and if you don't already know the answer to this question you asked, then obviously you should know that you don't care about the girl enough.
 
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eminence said:
so become the alpha and make him look up to you

- and if you don't already know the answer to this question you asked, then obviously you should know that you don't care about the girl enough.
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im sure he cares. he just wants reassurance. why would he be asking for our advice, help, and opinions.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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musclyjerk said:
So let me guess this straight:

You used to be friends with this chicks brother and his friends.

You were so desperate for a chick you ended up seeing his sister?

Can you see the real problem here?

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A. Who said he was desperate?
B. There isn't really a problem. So the brother is mad because you're banging his sister. Big deal. Apparently something happened in the past, and they don't like you. They're going to talk sh*t, nothing you can do about it. Most chicks don't give a rats ass if people don't like their boyfriend, as long as THEY do.
 
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I was never really freinds with him I would say, but i used to chill with him now and then. hes the most popular kid in the school
 
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No you don't.

What makes the sister of an ex friend any different than any other girl? If shes hot go for it. Doesn't matter who shes related to.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Remember, its a brother. Every brother's worst nightmare is someone dating their sister, I know. I have done some stupid things in the past too. If you really like this gurl show her brother that it does not matter who and what someone says and that you really want to be with her.
 
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play it out, as long as she attaracted to u, she wont go a damn what they say.
My gf's best friends hate me cause i messed up alitle before, i know that it does go aginast me alittle, but as long as she knows who i am and still attracted to me, i know it doesnt matter.
 
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