"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Her boyfriend is my only obstacle...

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disgustipated said:
The way you talk about him, I'm rooting for him.

Yeah if you're going to do it, do it. But no need to justify it by taking shots at the guy as if he doesn't deserve her. No need to take 2 ****s on the guy(taking his girl and tearing him down).
Dang man, you sound low self-esteem. You doing ok with the ladies?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I saw a couple pics of the dude on her facebook, and just imagine a 130 pound, six-foot, pasty white doofus with glasses who's face looks like a cross between Adam Sandler and a goddamn toddler. It is actually almost painful to see a quality 7.5 with a beta 4 like that. The guy actually visited our work a couple weeks ago, with total beta loser body language. He walked following after her, shoulders slumped, if you didn't know they were dating you wouldn't have guessed. I actually refused to actually "meet" him, since I've done this sort of thing before, and I almost feel bad taking a girl from a guy, even if all signs point to chump.
You described this guy as if you could steamroll him over any day (not that you can't) and yet he's an obstacle??? Sounds like a load of bullshvt to me.

No need to be hating on others for calling you out on it, this is a forum
afterall.

Personal view: Don't sh!t where you eat.
 
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