"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Her and her friend

42-Colrath

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This girl is obviously very into me. She is going to play tennis with her friend tomorrow and asked me if i wanted to tag along. is this an ok thing to go do with her friend around? and how do i handle this because i always just take a girl on a date? not be with her friend too
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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are you guys currently dating?

if you are, then you don't have to go or "tag along"...you are the man...you have to bring her into your reality.."tage along' make you seem like her servant or puppy dog...don't do it.

if you are not dating, then i suppose she wants her friend's opinion on you....go if you will, but bring a wing.
 

shydude

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Bring a guy friend that is single!! And then just rip em apart at tennis and take them to ur houses and make a move!! Simple as that CUZ!!
 
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