"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Her and her friend

42-Colrath

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 18, 2006
Messages
70
Reaction score
0
Age
37
This girl is obviously very into me. She is going to play tennis with her friend tomorrow and asked me if i wanted to tag along. is this an ok thing to go do with her friend around? and how do i handle this because i always just take a girl on a date? not be with her friend too
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Joined
Jun 23, 2005
Messages
185
Reaction score
0
are you guys currently dating?

if you are, then you don't have to go or "tag along"...you are the man...you have to bring her into your reality.."tage along' make you seem like her servant or puppy dog...don't do it.

if you are not dating, then i suppose she wants her friend's opinion on you....go if you will, but bring a wing.
 

shydude

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 27, 2005
Messages
569
Reaction score
2
Location
New York City
Bring a guy friend that is single!! And then just rip em apart at tennis and take them to ur houses and make a move!! Simple as that CUZ!!
 
Top