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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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helping a buddy out.

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i have a friend named micheal and he's a freashmen and he has a crush on this girl name aber shes a JR. im a JR and im good friends with her. He wants me to hook him up with a date, or sumthing. she knows who he is, and she thinks he's cute. im just blank minded on how to get those to together.

i was thinking about doing a double date with her friend.:cool:
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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get them talking is the only way to do it. but you can only do so much for your friend, if he's a major afc then its not going to matter how you set it up.

just say "oh, have you met my buddy -insert name here-" he's the coolest guy at this school. -insert popular kids name- tries but he just can't compete."

then, if they hit it off, suggest a double date or something to make it easier on him. MAKE SURE TO GIVE THEM SOME ALONE TIME.
 

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k. he got suspended but when he gets back i try that.. lol thanx




Later....
 

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try as best as you can to not make him look too much like a doofus if she asks about him getting suspended. make something up to make him sound better. thats unless you think she's after a bad boy.
 

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The double date will probabely work, but as mentioned above, make sure to give them some alone time, although being the older one, and having probably more experience, U should kind of watch over your freshman buddy to help him out a little if he gets stuck. But don't play matchmaker too much, it can seriously backfire. If it turns out that he is a big AFC, then take him to the bathroom and beat the snot out of him. Just kidding. Do take him somewhere and tell him to either follow your example(assuming you aren't an AFC) or just stay as "friends" with amber until he gets better social skill and can take it to the next level.
 

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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Originally posted by BeLoSH
try as best as you can to not make him look too much like a doofus if she asks about him getting suspended. make something up to make him sound better. thats unless you think she's after a bad boy.
haha ya, tell her he got suspended for fighting. a 13 year old kid was getting mugged by three arnold-shwartzenneger types and he messed them all up. lol

I had a broken wrist, and when a girl asked me how i did it, i told her i was rescuing puppies from a burning building and tripped on a fallen beam on my way out

the best part? she believed me :cool:
 

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Originally posted by Mr. Debonaire
haha ya, tell her he got suspended for fighting. a 13 year old kid was getting mugged by three arnold-shwartzenneger types and he messed them all up. lol

I had a broken wrist, and when a girl asked me how i did it, i told her i was rescuing puppies from a burning building and tripped on a fallen beam on my way out

the best part? she believed me :cool:
she must have also believed that you would die if she doesnt give u a ******* every hour :)
 

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That's pretty cool i guess. So what's the name of her friend you want to go with? Is it a guy and if so send me a pic if he's a little hottie!!!
 

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I hope his name is either Dakota or Theron. But if its a girl then don't bother talking to me cuz girls are so well they are not boys i can tell you that.
 

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Originally posted by Mr. Debonaire
haha ya, tell her he got suspended for fighting. a 13 year old kid was getting mugged by three arnold-shwartzenneger types and he messed them all up. lol

I had a broken wrist, and when a girl asked me how i did it, i told her i was rescuing puppies from a burning building and tripped on a fallen beam on my way out

the best part? she believed me :cool:


hahahahahahaha! he did get suspended for fighting... that was wierd.
 

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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dude, boring ronald, if you feel the need to try and get gay partners, start an advertisement thread, but don't get into straight threads looking for guys.
 

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amen beside isent this a site for guys going after girls?
 
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