"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ToUcHdOwN228

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so me and this girl have known each other a while..and we got kinda close in 8th grade, but then we got into these bad fights on aim. i am certinly not the dj, but i've liked her for a while now. we didnt know talk all of freshman year, but now we talk everyday, and i'm starting to get the feeling that she likes me. she talks to me alot, always wants to work with me in class, and will go out of her way to make me laugh/help me out. i've been gotten alot of signs she likes me, and all of her friends have recently started talking to me, and are all on my side that she likes me. ive been thinking about telling her. but idk how i should do it...any suggestions?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Quagmire911

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Originally posted by ToUcHdOwN228
s i am certinly not the dj, [ B]


It sounds to me like you havent read through the bible at length if at all. If you like this girl as much as you say you do then I wouldnt do anything as far as making a move on her is concerned, yet.
First of all read through the bible at length, making sure to cover all "must reads".

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
(Scroll to the part Step1, 2, 3..etc)

Also remember though there are plenty of other girls so try not to get attached to this one girl. As I've said though, read some stuff in the bible first until you have a better state of mind before trying anything with this girl in particular. Thinking things like "I've been thinkg about telling her" are a bad idea.

I hope this suggestion is helpful to you in someway, do yourself the favour of reading the bible at length though,

Quagmire
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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true what the guy above said. for this... you don't have to plan ANYTHING out. this girl... you can go with the flow with her - and she'll still like it all. but you can't go with the flow if you don't know what the hell you're doing... you might jsut turn her off. read the bible about convo and kino and attitude. thats all i have to say.

(sorry if i repeated the guy above... i didnt even read his post)
 
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