"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ToUcHdOwN228

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so me and this girl have known each other a while..and we got kinda close in 8th grade, but then we got into these bad fights on aim. i am certinly not the dj, but i've liked her for a while now. we didnt know talk all of freshman year, but now we talk everyday, and i'm starting to get the feeling that she likes me. she talks to me alot, always wants to work with me in class, and will go out of her way to make me laugh/help me out. i've been gotten alot of signs she likes me, and all of her friends have recently started talking to me, and are all on my side that she likes me. ive been thinking about telling her. but idk how i should do it...any suggestions?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Quagmire911

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Originally posted by ToUcHdOwN228
s i am certinly not the dj, [ B]


It sounds to me like you havent read through the bible at length if at all. If you like this girl as much as you say you do then I wouldnt do anything as far as making a move on her is concerned, yet.
First of all read through the bible at length, making sure to cover all "must reads".

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
(Scroll to the part Step1, 2, 3..etc)

Also remember though there are plenty of other girls so try not to get attached to this one girl. As I've said though, read some stuff in the bible first until you have a better state of mind before trying anything with this girl in particular. Thinking things like "I've been thinkg about telling her" are a bad idea.

I hope this suggestion is helpful to you in someway, do yourself the favour of reading the bible at length though,

Quagmire
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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true what the guy above said. for this... you don't have to plan ANYTHING out. this girl... you can go with the flow with her - and she'll still like it all. but you can't go with the flow if you don't know what the hell you're doing... you might jsut turn her off. read the bible about convo and kino and attitude. thats all i have to say.

(sorry if i repeated the guy above... i didnt even read his post)
 
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