"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Aznkid1030

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Ok... I need some help. Senario: Theres this girl I like and I've known her for like 2 or 3 weeks and we are friends for now I guess.. We have a good relationship now I hang out with her sometimes after school,during drill practice and do other stuff over the weekend... I want to take this situation to the next level, but I don't know if I should get to know her better or just go for it.....and if I should how should I do this? any suggestions?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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get to know her build some raport, initiate kino, use techniqes emphasized in the dj bible.
 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
get to know her build some raport, initiate kino, use techniqes emphasized in the dj bible.
no



bro simply ask her to do something wit u.
can be as simple as goin biking and bring in ur backpack a large blanket and have a little picnic in a secluded area in the park.
 
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