"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Aznkid1030

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Ok... I need some help. Senario: Theres this girl I like and I've known her for like 2 or 3 weeks and we are friends for now I guess.. We have a good relationship now I hang out with her sometimes after school,during drill practice and do other stuff over the weekend... I want to take this situation to the next level, but I don't know if I should get to know her better or just go for it.....and if I should how should I do this? any suggestions?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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get to know her build some raport, initiate kino, use techniqes emphasized in the dj bible.
 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
get to know her build some raport, initiate kino, use techniqes emphasized in the dj bible.
no



bro simply ask her to do something wit u.
can be as simple as goin biking and bring in ur backpack a large blanket and have a little picnic in a secluded area in the park.
 
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