"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I know this is a bit late now. I met this lovely hottie through my mates girlfriends. We happened to have a little chat together and it all went very smooth. We all joined up to do swimiming with my mates and their girlfriends. We were having a good time and she ask me to tell her a little bit about what I do. Now remember we have only just met for 4 hours.

I told that I am an Extreme Mountain biker and a Freestyle motocrosser which I do as a hobbie as well as a future career in it.
She was instantly all over me!:confused: I was thinking whaaa.. we have only been together for just 4 hours. She was constantly talking about it. This doesn't make any sense at all.

Should I have kept quiet who I am?. She instantly gave me her number when we got out then she had to go. Does she want to go out with me just because of what I do?. I mean we never really got a chance to talk about general things either.

Sorry guys if this doesn't make any sense but I am rather suspious about it. What shall I do?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Milk it for all its worth
 
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Probably what you being an extreme mountain biker and freestyle motocrosser conveys. Its shows her that you are exciting and that you have a good time. If you have a hobby like this then it will be easier to PU girls because youre conveying some attractive qualities that are hard to convey through body launguage. Hope I helped.
 
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Cheers. She hot so I have nothing to loose really. My body is going through a lot of abuse at the moment. Ah well..... I do those stupid things lol.
 
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Dude FMX! She hardly knows you! She knows the major thing But not all the little things. So hold back on telling her any more and do it slowly. reveal someting new every once in awhile.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Sterling the Runner
Dude FMX! She hardly knows you! She knows the major thing But not all the little things. So hold back on telling her any more and do it slowly. reveal someting new every once in awhile.
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yeah you can tell her what your hobbys are etc but always have a load of things that are unanswered because everyone loves to get to know everything about someone and most people reveal all their interesting things way to quick. It's like those films where you're only given the main plot at start and then the little things happen leaving you guessing whats going to happen next.
 
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