"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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guns825

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it's been two years since i broke up with my gf. I've been trying to get laid and get many dates but all i have achieved is one girl, which is kind of lame for two years being single. Right now, i've been reading a lot about game, hitting weights in the gym.. All i'm asking is some advice, it is really hard for me to follow all the PUA suggestions like being ****y and funny, i'm having a hard time talking to girls, i could use some advice, i don't mind getting rejected if that means i'll get the grip of this whole new world.

Thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If you are having a hard time talking to girls then you are always going to have trouble. Work on treating all women the same. Talk to girls you really are not attracted to and work your way up to the ones you are. You have to get to the point where when you met a woman it doesn't matter if she is a 10 or a heinous fat body, you treat her the same.
 

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Thanks. Is there anything i can start reading to boost my confidence and improve my social skills?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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