"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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it's been two years since i broke up with my gf. I've been trying to get laid and get many dates but all i have achieved is one girl, which is kind of lame for two years being single. Right now, i've been reading a lot about game, hitting weights in the gym.. All i'm asking is some advice, it is really hard for me to follow all the PUA suggestions like being ****y and funny, i'm having a hard time talking to girls, i could use some advice, i don't mind getting rejected if that means i'll get the grip of this whole new world.

Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you are having a hard time talking to girls then you are always going to have trouble. Work on treating all women the same. Talk to girls you really are not attracted to and work your way up to the ones you are. You have to get to the point where when you met a woman it doesn't matter if she is a 10 or a heinous fat body, you treat her the same.
 

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Thanks. Is there anything i can start reading to boost my confidence and improve my social skills?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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