"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MR MIZUN0

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Like a year ago while doing my schhol service at a summer camp I met this other voulenteer, and we really hit it off, alot of touching between us, and alot of constant eye contact between us. Well at the end of the week I didnt have the balls at the time to kiss her and get her number. Well fastforward to yesterday...my long time good bro were chatting, and I knew him and her goto the same school, so I asked him to give her my number, he did. Last night I got a txt from her asking how im doing etc. She mentioned she was planning on going to G---(college) (I applied there too, got accepted already...) I then say that perhaps I might have to go there to, and she responded with haha yeah perhaps you should :) (I get the hint that she likes me etc---that is a clue right) I dont want to txt her evryday cause then I look desperate....i might drag her over to the next little shenanigan u have.

She invited me to go bowling after mt bros cancelled their party tonight. But it is her friends bowling party, I really dont know the girl that well, let alone her friends...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If you have the opportunity to hang out with her, do it. So what if you don't know her friends. Be cool and it will show that you are not bad outside of your comfort zone.

BTW, stop texting and call the girl.
 
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For future reference, do not EVER give your number to a friend and tell him to give it to a girl. That just shows you are completely desperate and dont have the balls or confidence to talk to the girl in person and exchange numbers then.

As a matter of fact, never give a girl your number unless she asks for it, simply because doin somethin like "Ohh heres my number we should hang out sometime" just makes you come off as desperate.

As for your situation, if you truly want to get with this girl, then it would probably be a smart move to hang out with her, especially if she was the one who suggested it. Plus, you can always meet more chicks at the bowling place anyways.
 
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