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[MR MIZUN0]

Like a year ago while doing my schhol service at a summer camp I met this other voulenteer, and we really hit it off, alot of touching between us, and alot of constant eye contact between us. Well at the end of the week I didnt have the balls at the time to kiss her and get her number. Well fastforward to yesterday...my long time good bro were chatting, and I knew him and her goto the same school, so I asked him to give her my number, he did. Last night I got a txt from her asking how im doing etc. She mentioned she was planning on going to G---(college) (I applied there too, got accepted already...) I then say that perhaps I might have to go there to, and she responded with haha yeah perhaps you should (I get the hint that she likes me etc---that is a clue right) I dont want to txt her evryday cause then I look desperate....i might drag her over to the next little shenanigan u have.

She invited me to go bowling after mt bros cancelled their party tonight. But it is her friends bowling party, I really dont know the girl that well, let alone her friends...

 

[YogurtSlinger]

If you have the opportunity to hang out with her, do it. So what if you don't know her friends. Be cool and it will show that you are not bad outside of your comfort zone.

BTW, stop texting and call the girl.

 

[eaglez1177]

For future reference, do not EVER give your number to a friend and tell him to give it to a girl. That just shows you are completely desperate and dont have the balls or confidence to talk to the girl in person and exchange numbers then.

As a matter of fact, never give a girl your number unless she asks for it, simply because doin somethin like "Ohh heres my number we should hang out sometime" just makes you come off as desperate.

As for your situation, if you truly want to get with this girl, then it would probably be a smart move to hang out with her, especially if she was the one who suggested it. Plus, you can always meet more chicks at the bowling place anyways.