"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You're a man. Your situation at this point should be a personal matter. You need to act accordingly or learn from the situation. She obviously has loved you, these sort of relationships don't come easy, basically it's time for YOU to set the pace of the reality you both know together and make it work for you both.. It's love and a two way street. You may blow it or you may end up together the rest of your lives, your responsibility. You need to make it a personal matter at this point. Get off of this website in other words and be your own man.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ima str8 up pimp said:
You're a man. Your situation at this point should be a personal matter. You need to act accordingly or learn from the situation. She obviously has loved you, these sort of relationships don't come easy, basically it's time to set the pace of the reality you both know together and make it work for you both.. It's love and a two way street. You may blow it or you may end up together the rest of your lives, your responsibility. You need to make it a personal matter at this point. Get off of this website in other words and be your own man.

Can you explain that a little bit more? Sorry..like what do you mean?
 
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anx1ety said:
Can you explain that a little bit more? Sorry..like what do you mean?
I'll put it this way: **** gets tough and tightens up.. she's giving you the benefit of the doubt, you've gotta hustle up and do it to it. Your responsibility. Get off of this site.
 

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anx1ety said:
Ok..I've on my own decided I'm going to say something. I just need to choose between these two statements.

1. Hey, hope you have a great trip, talk to you when you get back.
2. Hey, don't know if ill talk to you before you leave so hope you have a great trip. Talk to you when you get back.

my cousin (whose a 17 year old girl) thinks I should use 2 and put a heart or a smiley at the end of it..lol. I'm asking for the advice of you guys..so GIVE IT..and FAST.
Dude No dont talk to her, don't leave a message text or whatever..have no contact with her dont even answer or read her texts.Cut ties with her if she says shes bipolar or any other psychological disorder trust me that $h1t f@cks you up. Don't ever communicate with a chick you like through facebook it kills your mystery and makes you more of an average chump also never take advice from girls on dating..They will only tell you what they want in a relationship usually they behave differently than what they say so what you cousin said is utter BS. in the words of jay Z "on to the next one"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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