“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You're a man. Your situation at this point should be a personal matter. You need to act accordingly or learn from the situation. She obviously has loved you, these sort of relationships don't come easy, basically it's time for YOU to set the pace of the reality you both know together and make it work for you both.. It's love and a two way street. You may blow it or you may end up together the rest of your lives, your responsibility. You need to make it a personal matter at this point. Get off of this website in other words and be your own man.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ima str8 up pimp said:
You're a man. Your situation at this point should be a personal matter. You need to act accordingly or learn from the situation. She obviously has loved you, these sort of relationships don't come easy, basically it's time to set the pace of the reality you both know together and make it work for you both.. It's love and a two way street. You may blow it or you may end up together the rest of your lives, your responsibility. You need to make it a personal matter at this point. Get off of this website in other words and be your own man.

Can you explain that a little bit more? Sorry..like what do you mean?
 
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Can you explain that a little bit more? Sorry..like what do you mean?
I'll put it this way: **** gets tough and tightens up.. she's giving you the benefit of the doubt, you've gotta hustle up and do it to it. Your responsibility. Get off of this site.
 

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anx1ety said:
Ok..I've on my own decided I'm going to say something. I just need to choose between these two statements.

1. Hey, hope you have a great trip, talk to you when you get back.
2. Hey, don't know if ill talk to you before you leave so hope you have a great trip. Talk to you when you get back.

my cousin (whose a 17 year old girl) thinks I should use 2 and put a heart or a smiley at the end of it..lol. I'm asking for the advice of you guys..so GIVE IT..and FAST.
Dude No dont talk to her, don't leave a message text or whatever..have no contact with her dont even answer or read her texts.Cut ties with her if she says shes bipolar or any other psychological disorder trust me that $h1t f@cks you up. Don't ever communicate with a chick you like through facebook it kills your mystery and makes you more of an average chump also never take advice from girls on dating..They will only tell you what they want in a relationship usually they behave differently than what they say so what you cousin said is utter BS. in the words of jay Z "on to the next one"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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