"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You're a man. Your situation at this point should be a personal matter. You need to act accordingly or learn from the situation. She obviously has loved you, these sort of relationships don't come easy, basically it's time for YOU to set the pace of the reality you both know together and make it work for you both.. It's love and a two way street. You may blow it or you may end up together the rest of your lives, your responsibility. You need to make it a personal matter at this point. Get off of this website in other words and be your own man.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ima str8 up pimp said:
You're a man. Your situation at this point should be a personal matter. You need to act accordingly or learn from the situation. She obviously has loved you, these sort of relationships don't come easy, basically it's time to set the pace of the reality you both know together and make it work for you both.. It's love and a two way street. You may blow it or you may end up together the rest of your lives, your responsibility. You need to make it a personal matter at this point. Get off of this website in other words and be your own man.

Can you explain that a little bit more? Sorry..like what do you mean?
 
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anx1ety said:
Can you explain that a little bit more? Sorry..like what do you mean?
I'll put it this way: **** gets tough and tightens up.. she's giving you the benefit of the doubt, you've gotta hustle up and do it to it. Your responsibility. Get off of this site.
 

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anx1ety said:
Ok..I've on my own decided I'm going to say something. I just need to choose between these two statements.

1. Hey, hope you have a great trip, talk to you when you get back.
2. Hey, don't know if ill talk to you before you leave so hope you have a great trip. Talk to you when you get back.

my cousin (whose a 17 year old girl) thinks I should use 2 and put a heart or a smiley at the end of it..lol. I'm asking for the advice of you guys..so GIVE IT..and FAST.
Dude No dont talk to her, don't leave a message text or whatever..have no contact with her dont even answer or read her texts.Cut ties with her if she says shes bipolar or any other psychological disorder trust me that $h1t f@cks you up. Don't ever communicate with a chick you like through facebook it kills your mystery and makes you more of an average chump also never take advice from girls on dating..They will only tell you what they want in a relationship usually they behave differently than what they say so what you cousin said is utter BS. in the words of jay Z "on to the next one"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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