"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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max_dawg

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this girl really led me on, she invited me to her house alot at night and everything and we spent lots of time together. We even did a little smoochin;)...but then im talkin to her and shes says she doesn't like me as more than a friend and we shouldn't hang out alone.

now i know most people would want to give up here but I DON"T! because i dont just like this girl i have lots of feelings for her. But she made it pretty clear that were just friends.

I can't stop thinkin about her and i don't want to either so what should I do...

And don't tell me to get over her cause thats not the answerr im lookin for here.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Adrian

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There's no point in killing yourself over a girl. Any girl for that matter. Be careful with who you catch feelings for the next time around. Protect you heart. The BEST advice I can give you is exactly that which you don't want to hear. I hope you gain the knowledge and expirience you need in time. Take care man.
 

Someone Much cooler

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max dog you want us to lie to you....unless your fin to slip her a micky, you can't make her give herslef to you....let it go...let it go
 

StoneColdFox

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Aye Carumba!

She invited you over alot.

You should've invited her places as well.

You should've taken control.

I could've gotten laid on the first night I was with my last girl, I mean underneath me begging for it, why? Because i'm confident.

She always had guys who would be her *****, and now she had me. I was different, I made her work for things, I kept her wondering and guessing. (Which is why i didn't fvck her the first night .. Basically had her on her knees begging by day three, plus "buyers remorse" which has been mentioned before but thats another topic.).

I'm not saying you transformed into her ***** and ruined it, but next time you're with a girl, take charge as well. Don't let her call all the shots.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Alkali

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Whatever you do. Don't get attached.

Oh wait.
 

backbreaker

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i'm harp in.

it looks like you didn't move in fast ENOUGH for the kill and she lost the fire.

she at one point in time..wanted you. but there isn't a man on earth that can keep a womans' interest forever wtihout making a REAL move.

you've lost this one buddy. just move on and learn
 
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