"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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this girl really led me on, she invited me to her house alot at night and everything and we spent lots of time together. We even did a little smoochin;)...but then im talkin to her and shes says she doesn't like me as more than a friend and we shouldn't hang out alone.

now i know most people would want to give up here but I DON"T! because i dont just like this girl i have lots of feelings for her. But she made it pretty clear that were just friends.

I can't stop thinkin about her and i don't want to either so what should I do...

And don't tell me to get over her cause thats not the answerr im lookin for here.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There's no point in killing yourself over a girl. Any girl for that matter. Be careful with who you catch feelings for the next time around. Protect you heart. The BEST advice I can give you is exactly that which you don't want to hear. I hope you gain the knowledge and expirience you need in time. Take care man.
 
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max dog you want us to lie to you....unless your fin to slip her a micky, you can't make her give herslef to you....let it go...let it go
 
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Aye Carumba!

She invited you over alot.

You should've invited her places as well.

You should've taken control.

I could've gotten laid on the first night I was with my last girl, I mean underneath me begging for it, why? Because i'm confident.

She always had guys who would be her *****, and now she had me. I was different, I made her work for things, I kept her wondering and guessing. (Which is why i didn't fvck her the first night .. Basically had her on her knees begging by day three, plus "buyers remorse" which has been mentioned before but thats another topic.).

I'm not saying you transformed into her ***** and ruined it, but next time you're with a girl, take charge as well. Don't let her call all the shots.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Whatever you do. Don't get attached.

Oh wait.
 
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i'm harp in.

it looks like you didn't move in fast ENOUGH for the kill and she lost the fire.

she at one point in time..wanted you. but there isn't a man on earth that can keep a womans' interest forever wtihout making a REAL move.

you've lost this one buddy. just move on and learn
 
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