"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dayum itz jee

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I dont know how to start a conversation.. Thats one of my biggest problem.. I know everything else except that.. im the worse at that.. i got the confidence to approach but dont know what to say or what to talk about.. like if a girls shopping and i see her i wouldn't know what to say to her i would usually just walk away and make eye contact thats about it...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Listen to what's preached on here. The 3 second rule. When you start using it, you'll never understand why you never did in the first place.

I will tell you this though. By doing the 3 second rule you will learn who you are and what works and what doesn't work for you. No one on this website can help you discover who YOU really are. That's you're job, we're just here to help.

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Its easy to start a conversation. Think of the girl as an ugly old hag. Look around the room. If there is a band, tell her the band is pretty good and ask what she thinks. If there are people acting fools, tell her that the people are crazy. If she is sitting by herself bored, go up to her and say... you dont' look like you are having any fun?? Why not? Etc, Etc, Etc....


IMO, when you break the ice, you don't really have to use any game on her. Just think of something to talk about, and a conversation will folllow.
 
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