"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dayum itz jee

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I dont know how to start a conversation.. Thats one of my biggest problem.. I know everything else except that.. im the worse at that.. i got the confidence to approach but dont know what to say or what to talk about.. like if a girls shopping and i see her i wouldn't know what to say to her i would usually just walk away and make eye contact thats about it...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Burgundy

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Listen to what's preached on here. The 3 second rule. When you start using it, you'll never understand why you never did in the first place.

I will tell you this though. By doing the 3 second rule you will learn who you are and what works and what doesn't work for you. No one on this website can help you discover who YOU really are. That's you're job, we're just here to help.

Sarge on.
 

sanyo7878

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Its easy to start a conversation. Think of the girl as an ugly old hag. Look around the room. If there is a band, tell her the band is pretty good and ask what she thinks. If there are people acting fools, tell her that the people are crazy. If she is sitting by herself bored, go up to her and say... you dont' look like you are having any fun?? Why not? Etc, Etc, Etc....


IMO, when you break the ice, you don't really have to use any game on her. Just think of something to talk about, and a conversation will folllow.
 
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