"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dayum itz jee

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I dont know how to start a conversation.. Thats one of my biggest problem.. I know everything else except that.. im the worse at that.. i got the confidence to approach but dont know what to say or what to talk about.. like if a girls shopping and i see her i wouldn't know what to say to her i would usually just walk away and make eye contact thats about it...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Burgundy

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Listen to what's preached on here. The 3 second rule. When you start using it, you'll never understand why you never did in the first place.

I will tell you this though. By doing the 3 second rule you will learn who you are and what works and what doesn't work for you. No one on this website can help you discover who YOU really are. That's you're job, we're just here to help.

Sarge on.
 

sanyo7878

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Its easy to start a conversation. Think of the girl as an ugly old hag. Look around the room. If there is a band, tell her the band is pretty good and ask what she thinks. If there are people acting fools, tell her that the people are crazy. If she is sitting by herself bored, go up to her and say... you dont' look like you are having any fun?? Why not? Etc, Etc, Etc....


IMO, when you break the ice, you don't really have to use any game on her. Just think of something to talk about, and a conversation will folllow.
 
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