studofnorway
Don Juan
I have this ******** phrase, could someone help me translate?
"I did not initially like you, but I do now!"
"I did not initially like you, but I do now!"
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Help with ********
- Thread starter studofnorway
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
depends on the context!
you could have done countless numbers of things, unless you tell us what you did and how you saw her react just before she said that, and if nothing how you reacted AROUND her in the days before.... we won't ever really know
But it is most likely one of two factors
she likes you as a little toy, that she can play with
you treated her like a toy, now its time to play games with her
you could have done countless numbers of things, unless you tell us what you did and how you saw her react just before she said that, and if nothing how you reacted AROUND her in the days before.... we won't ever really know
But it is most likely one of two factors
she likes you as a little toy, that she can play with
you treated her like a toy, now its time to play games with her
studofnorway
Don Juan
The big question is why she has to stress the fact that she initially doubted me? why does she feel the urge to inform me about that?
spider_007
Master Don Juan
maybe she was being playfull...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Whatever perceptions she had of you off the bat, were dissolved and replaced with things she realized about you once she got to "know you". Apparently she likes those things. It's not '********'..it happens in all of us.