studofnorway
Don Juan
I have this ******** phrase, could someone help me translate?
"I did not initially like you, but I do now!"
"I did not initially like you, but I do now!"
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Help with ********
- Thread starter studofnorway
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
depends on the context!
you could have done countless numbers of things, unless you tell us what you did and how you saw her react just before she said that, and if nothing how you reacted AROUND her in the days before.... we won't ever really know
But it is most likely one of two factors
she likes you as a little toy, that she can play with
you treated her like a toy, now its time to play games with her
you could have done countless numbers of things, unless you tell us what you did and how you saw her react just before she said that, and if nothing how you reacted AROUND her in the days before.... we won't ever really know
But it is most likely one of two factors
she likes you as a little toy, that she can play with
you treated her like a toy, now its time to play games with her
studofnorway
Don Juan
The big question is why she has to stress the fact that she initially doubted me? why does she feel the urge to inform me about that?
spider_007
Master Don Juan
maybe she was being playfull...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Whatever perceptions she had of you off the bat, were dissolved and replaced with things she realized about you once she got to "know you". Apparently she likes those things. It's not '********'..it happens in all of us.