help with this could possibly cure all my failures with girls

[guayaballer]

ever since i can remember i could get a girl to be interested in me. i can get her to laugh easily playfully touch me bust her ball kino her etc. and sumtimes hold decent conversations but the problem is im always stuck at this point with the girl she sees i am a fun laidback guy and i can basically tell she likes me eventually things stay the same and her interest in me starts to decline to the point where its just a simple hey in the hallways. and the same thing happens with every single girl and i am really sick of it and i want to know what am i doing wrong or what part of the game im missing or something im not doing. if i can just get past this problem i know i can finally be succesful. maybe any of you guys have been through this too?

 

[oakraiderz2]

Making a move. Do you like sitting in a state in which youre not progressing? Youre either moving forward or backward. So next time, tell her you two are gonnd hang out and then itll be just peachy once you lay one on her.

 

[guayaballer]

thank you for the advice raiderz. what about if a girl is already getting kinoed by other guys and other guys neg her and make her laugh how would i distinguish myself from the other guys when its my time alone with her?

 

[oakraiderz2]

Look at it this way...you say you get her interested? So, ask her to hang out with you on the weekend or something. Get away from the structure of school so kino can be escalated to kissing or something. As for at school, be seeing with other girls, ignore her occasionally, and greet her while shes getting jocked. If youre the one chilling with her on the weekends getting some love then thats all that matters.

 

[BobFuest]

thank you for the advice raiderz. what about if a girl is already getting kinoed by other guys and other guys neg her and make her laugh how would i distinguish myself from the other guys when its my time alone with her?

dude, you are different. forget those guys. if you got her talked up ask her out and then make like a ghost. When you see em make some moves. SEXUAL MOVES. let them know your not they're boy buddy. girls are teases and flirts IF you let them. Dont. make your intentions known.

 

[Jester090]

dude, you are different. forget those guys. if you got her talked up ask her out and then make like a ghost. When you see em make some moves. SEXUAL MOVES. let them know your not they're boy buddy. girls are teases and flirts IF you let them. Dont. make your intentions known.

Good advice. I would also recommend though you that you clearly convey your intentions (more than just friend) BEFORE you ask her out, because way too many guys in highschool hide behind the "let's hang out phrase" which feel so comfortable because if the girl says no, then hey, it was just a friendly invitation. Girls don't like that **** though. They like guys with balls who take risks and aren't afraid to show sexual interest.

If she keeps showing you positive signs after you show your sexual interest verbally (smiling, laughing, kino) then make sure you ask her out and IT IS ON from there. All you have to do is physically escalate on the date. Hope this helps bro.