"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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help with this could possibly cure all my failures with girls

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ever since i can remember i could get a girl to be interested in me. i can get her to laugh easily playfully touch me bust her ball kino her etc. and sumtimes hold decent conversations but the problem is im always stuck at this point with the girl she sees i am a fun laidback guy and i can basically tell she likes me eventually things stay the same and her interest in me starts to decline to the point where its just a simple hey in the hallways. and the same thing happens with every single girl and i am really sick of it and i want to know what am i doing wrong or what part of the game im missing or something im not doing. if i can just get past this problem i know i can finally be succesful. maybe any of you guys have been through this too?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Making a move. Do you like sitting in a state in which youre not progressing? Youre either moving forward or backward. So next time, tell her you two are gonnd hang out and then itll be just peachy once you lay one on her.
 
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thank you for the advice raiderz. what about if a girl is already getting kinoed by other guys and other guys neg her and make her laugh how would i distinguish myself from the other guys when its my time alone with her?
 
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Look at it this way...you say you get her interested? So, ask her to hang out with you on the weekend or something. Get away from the structure of school so kino can be escalated to kissing or something. As for at school, be seeing with other girls, ignore her occasionally, and greet her while shes getting jocked. If youre the one chilling with her on the weekends getting some love then thats all that matters.
 
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guayaballer said:
thank you for the advice raiderz. what about if a girl is already getting kinoed by other guys and other guys neg her and make her laugh how would i distinguish myself from the other guys when its my time alone with her?
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dude, you are different. forget those guys. if you got her talked up ask her out and then make like a ghost. When you see em make some moves. SEXUAL MOVES. let them know your not they're boy buddy. girls are teases and flirts IF you let them. Dont. make your intentions known.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BobFuest said:
dude, you are different. forget those guys. if you got her talked up ask her out and then make like a ghost. When you see em make some moves. SEXUAL MOVES. let them know your not they're boy buddy. girls are teases and flirts IF you let them. Dont. make your intentions known.
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Good advice. I would also recommend though you that you clearly convey your intentions (more than just friend) BEFORE you ask her out, because way too many guys in highschool hide behind the "let's hang out phrase" which feel so comfortable because if the girl says no, then hey, it was just a friendly invitation. Girls don't like that **** though. They like guys with balls who take risks and aren't afraid to show sexual interest.

If she keeps showing you positive signs after you show your sexual interest verbally (smiling, laughing, kino) then make sure you ask her out and IT IS ON from there. All you have to do is physically escalate on the date. Hope this helps bro.
 
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