"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Help with response to brat

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on first few contacts, I have this broad being lippy with me... a total brat... I say...

"are you always this much of a brat?"

she says "ALLLLLLLLLLLWAYs..and im not a brat! im a SPOILED brat- get it right "

I know this is a classic, and should be easy but as per my user id... i'm not to creative... what's the best response here? any ideas?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TheEdgeOf

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try hitting her
 

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challenged said:
"are you always this much of a brat?"

she says "ALLLLLLLLLLLWAYs..and im not a brat! im a SPOILED brat- get it right "
"Sorry. I knew you were a brat, but I didn't know you were a spoiled brat. Thanks for clearing that up."

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I wasn't popular in school, I wasn't popular in sports
All the girls I loved loved the guys on the court
I feel like I've been cheated of my youth
Cause back in the day braces weren't so cute
Girls used to laugh at my suit
Now I got models in bed knockin' boots
 

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this is a response to an email so I need more than a one-liner. I need some C&F sh*t to put her in her place.
 

Mavrick

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Say, "Oh, okay". Then don't send another email.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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^^ That's pretty lame.

Tell her:

"I knew you were a brat. I could tell that by just looking at you"
 

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^^^Do not listen to anything My Name is Nobody says. He is the perfect example of an AFC. He has no clue about women, and posts endless threads on sosuave. Never take his advice. Ever! Well, maybe when he unplugs from the matrix.

You can tell by how has to put others down to make himself look better.
 
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rea001 said:
^^^Do not listen to anything My Name is Nobody says. He is the perfect example of an AFC. He has no clue about women, and posts endless threads on sosuave. Never take his advice. Ever! Well, maybe when he unplugs from the matrix.

That's why I've laid a few Hb 8's in the last year?

I don't go for UG's like you.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
That's why I've laid a few Hb 8's in the last year?

I don't go for UG's like you.
challenged, I'm not going to hijack your thread by putting this guy down. That's not the sosuave way. Just don't listen to him.

Anyway, just tell her that you guys just won't work out because she's spoiled. Then lay back and see how she reacts. The reason I'm telling you this is because you want her to be reactive towards you. You want her to prove herself to you. This will give you the upper hand, and it will keep you from coming off as desperate.
 
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